Conflict Resilience with Bob Bordone — How to Disagree Without Giving Up or Giving In
Nov 22, 2025
In this episode of Faithful Politics, negotiation expert Bob Bordone shares practical tools for having tough conversations without shutting down or escalating. He explains how our nervous system reacts to conflict, why avoiding disagreements can harm relationships, and how curiosity and compassion can make difficult discussions more productive. Listeners walk away with simple, effective strategies to communicate honestly while preserving connection.
How To Disagree About Gender with a Close Friend (Part I)
Oct 24, 2025
In this first episode, How to Disagree About Gender with a Close Friend, columnist Larissa Phillips joins conflict resolution expert Bob Bordone for a candid coaching session about navigating differences around gender and identity. Recorded live on Substack, this episode offers practical tools for handling difficult conversations and insight into what it means to stay in relationship even when we don’t see eye to eye.
Harvard’s Science of Conflict: Train Your Brain for Resilience with Bob Bordone
Oct 14, 2025
How can leaders turn tension into teamwork, and disagreement into innovation? In this episode of the Strategy and Leadership Podcast, Anthony Taylor speaks with Bob Bordone, USA Today Bestselling Author, Senior Fellow at Harvard Law School, and nationally recognized expert in negotiation and conflict resolution.
Takk og lov | Conflict Resilience with Bob Bordone
Sep 10, 2025
In this episode of Takk & lov, host Anine Kierulf sits down with Harvard Law School’s Bob Bordone, co-author (with Joel Salinas) of the USA Today bestseller Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In. They explore how our attitudes toward conflict have evolved, especially over the past decade and why many of us, including law students, may be increasingly inclined to avoid it.
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How to Handle Conflicts Without Losing Your Cool, Your Relationships, or Your Job
Aug 18, 2025
In this podcast, Bob Bordone, Senior Fellow at Harvard Law School, shares why conflict isn’t something to fear, but something to practice and turn into a tool for connection. You’ll learn how to build conflict resilience by recognizing your default conflict style (fight, flight, freeze, fawn, or fester), why avoidance is the “slow kill” of meaningful relationships, and how to approach disagreement with assertiveness and empathy.
Negotiation | Just Asking
Aug 2, 2025
In this episode, experts Nil Ataogul and Fabiola Tassy share insights on becoming a more confident and effective negotiator. You'll also hear from Bob Bordone, senior fellow at Harvard Law School and author of Conflict Resilience, on navigating disagreements without giving up or giving in.
What Every Therapist Should Know About Conflict with Harvard’s Bob Bordone | POP 1237
Jul 29, 2025
In this episode, Harvard negotiation expert Bob Bordone joins host Joe Sanok to discuss how therapists—and professionals in helping roles—can transform conflict from a challenge into an opportunity. Drawing from his new book, Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In, Bordone shares practical strategies for navigating disagreements with clients, colleagues, and even within oneself.
Why Smart Parents Argue With Their Teens (And How to Do It Right) | Conflict Resolution Tips from a Harvard Expert
Jul 7, 2025
In this podcast, Harvard Law negotiation expert Bob Bordone reveals how the same conflict resolution strategies used by world leaders can transform your parent-teen relationship.
Secret #57: Conflict Resilience with Bob Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas
Jul 3, 2025
In this eye-opening episode, hosts Emma Waddington and Chris McCurry dive into the science and art of facing conflict head-on with nationally recognized conflict resolution expert Bob Bordone and behavioral neurologist Dr. Joel Salinas, co-authors of the groundbreaking book Conflict Resilience.
Flight cancelled again? Try these tips.
Jun 17, 2025
In this episode, learn what you can do ahead of time to avoid delays, get ahead of drama in the terminal when your flight is cancelled and strategies for getting refunds quickly.
Getting to Yes, And… | Robert Bordone and Joel Salinas – ‘The Improvised Art of Negotiation’
Jun 17, 2025
In this podcast, Kelly Leonard sits across the table from Robert Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas who have written the new book “Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In.
How To Speak With Confidence, Set Boundaries & Protect Yourself From Manipulation | Bob Bordone
Jun 2, 2025
In this episode of The Adversity Advantage with Doug Bopst, Bob Bordone discusses how to handle difficult conversations and conflict effectively, communication techniques for gaining respect and authority, how to protect yourself from manipulation and deal with difficult people, an underrated communication skill you should work on, how to say no without damaging your relationships, why self-awareness is essential for improving communication and much more.
WSOU: Thank God For Monday
May 26, 2025
In this podcast, Robert Bordone - Co-author of Conflict Resilience - speaks about his book, and how to negotiate disagreement without giving up or giving in.
Ground Truths | How to Deal With Conflict
May 5, 2025
In this episode of Ground Truths, Eric Topol speaks with Bob Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas about their book Conflict Resilience. They explore how to handle disagreements without shutting down or becoming combative, sharing practical tips through a mock debate and real world examples.
4 Powerful Ways to Make Conflict Less Stressful | Dr. Joel Salinas and Bob Bordone
Apr 28, 2025
In this episode of Behavioral Grooves, neurologist Joel Salinas and conflict resolution expert Bob Bordone offer a powerful reframe on disagreement, showing how neuroscience and self-awareness can help us break old patterns and build stronger relationships.
“Conflict Resilience in a Divided Church,” with conflict resolution expert, Bob Bordone
Apr 24, 2025
In this podcast, conflict resolution expert Bob Bordone joins Mark Massa, S.J., to explore key themes from his new book, Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement without Giving Up or Giving In. Drawing from his deep Catholic roots, Bordone reflects on how these tools can foster healthier dialogue and bridge divides within parish life and the wider Church.
Conflict Resilience with Bob Bordone and Joel Salinas
Apr 16, 2025
In this episode of Psychologists Off the Clock, co-authors Bob Bordone and Joel Salinas join host Yael for a powerful conversation about their book Conflict Resilience. Blending personal stories, neuroscience, and real-world tools, they explore how staying present in tough conversations can deepen connection, build empathy, and rewire our brains for healthier relationships, even in the heat of disagreement.
Conflict Resilience | Robert Bordone, JD & Joel Salinas, MD | Episode #259
Apr 8, 2025
In this episode of SuperPsyched, hosted by psychologist Dr. Adam Dorsay, experts Robert Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas discuss their book, 'Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In.' They delve into the common misconceptions about conflict, arguing that it is a natural and necessary part of human relationships.
Conflict Resilience: Turning Disagreement into Growth and Connection
Mar 25, 2025
Conflict is everywhere, but what if it could actually bring us closer? In this episode, law professor Robert Bordone and neurologist Dr. Joel Salinas discuss their book Conflict Resilience and share a transformative approach to navigating disagreement. Instead of avoiding or escalating conflict, they explore how we can engage with it to foster growth, connection, and lasting understanding.
The Harvard-Backed Secret to Winning Every Argument (Without Destroying Your Relationships)
Mar 25, 2025
In this episode of Getting Open, Andrea Miller speaks with Harvard conflict resolution expert Bob Bordone and neurologist Dr. Joel Salinas about how to navigate conflict in a healthier way. They discuss why avoiding conflict leads to deeper problems, how to stay present in tough conversations, and why embracing discomfort can strengthen relationships and personal growth.
Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In - Bob Bordone
Mar 25, 2025
In this episode, the Paulist Deacon Affiliates speak with Bob Bordone, co-author of Conflict Resilience, about navigating tough conversations—from family tensions at Thanksgiving dinner to difficult talks with coworkers and loved ones. Bob shares insights from his work in negotiation, conflict resolution, and his experience as a longtime law professor and founder of the Harvard Negotiation and Mediation Clinical Program.
Why Your Brain Rewards You for Avoiding Your Boss, with Dr. Joel Salinas | Episode 592
Mar 21, 2025
In this episode, neurologist and brain health expert Dr. Joel Salinas breaks down what’s really happening in your brain during high-stress moments—like asking for a raise or navigating conflict. He explains why we avoid hard conversations, how to break the cycle, and the neuroscience behind building healthier, more resilient communication habits.
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Robert Bordone: Is Conflict an Obstacle or an Opportunity? | Craft: Exploring Creativity
Mar 20, 2025
In this podcast, Harvard negotiation expert Robert Bordone argues that conflict can be reframed as a positive force for stronger relationships and more authentic connections.
The Hidden Tax of Avoiding Tough Conversations, with Harvard Law Senior Fellow Bob Bordone | Episode 591
Mar 18, 2025
In this podcast, Bob Bordone joins Paula Pant on Afford Anything to discuss why negotiation isn’t about choosing between empathy and assertiveness. In fact, combining them is the key to successful negotiations.
Harnessing the Power of Conflict for Healthier Relationships | Episode 261
Mar 18, 2025
In this episode, Bob Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas joined the Heal Your Heartbreak podcast to discuss their new book, Conflict Resilience. Bob, a negotiation and mediation expert, and Joel, a neurology professor, explore how embracing conflict rather than avoiding it can lead to stronger relationships. Their book offers insights and practical steps to transform disagreements into opportunities for connection.
Conflict Resilience: A Conversation with Robert Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas M.D
Mar 17, 2025
What is conflict resilience—and how can we grow from disagreement instead of breaking down? Host Michael Keegan talks with Robert Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas, M.D., authors of Conflict Resilience, about handling conflict with integrity while building stronger, deeper relationships.
Conflict Resilience: How Disagreements Can Strengthen Relationships
Mar 12, 2025
As division and polarization continue to plague our world, Father Dave welcomes Bob Bordone to discuss how conflict can be an opportunity to forge stronger relationships. Bob is Senior Fellow at Harvard Law School as well as the founder and former director of the Harvard Negotiation and Mediation Clinical Program. His latest book, co-authored with neurologist Dr. Joel Salinas, is called, “Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In.”
Conflict Resilience | Bob Bordone and Dr. Joel Salinas | Episode 719
Mar 12, 2025
In this podcast, Dr. Joel Salinas and Bob Bordone discuss the importance of engaging with conflict rather than avoiding it, emphasizing that conflict can be a sign of love and authenticity. They also dive into the neuroscience behind conflict, the personal thresholds individuals have for conflict tolerance, and the role of identity in how we approach disagreements.
Exploring Conflict Resilience: A New Approach to Negotiating and Mediation with Bob Bordone
Mar 10, 2025
In this episode of Negotiate Anything, host Kwame Christian engages with negotiation and conflict resolution experts Bob Bordone and Simon Dowling. The discussion dives deep into the concept of "conflict resilience," a pivotal element of effective negotiation strategies often overlooked in traditional teachings. Bob Bordone shares his insights from years of experience, emphasizing the importance of sitting with the discomfort of differences and approaching conflict not as a threat, but as a powerful means to build stronger connections and relationships.
Harvard Law Professor on Negotiation: Making ‘Messy Conversations’ Work for You
Mar 5, 2025
In this episode, Harvard Law Professor Bob Bordone talks about negotiation and conflict resolution. He discusses seeing conflict as an opportunity instead of a threat, and shares practical tips for handling difficult conversations. The episode covers when to address or avoid conflicts, dealing with family disputes, and the importance of being a good listener. Bob also offers advice on understanding others' perspectives and dealing with uncooperative and difficult people.
GRACE under pressure: Joel Salinas MD
Mar 4, 2025
In this podcast, Joel Salinas, behavioral neurologist and clinician scientist at NYU Grossman School of Medicine, joins John Baldoni to discuss the intersection of neuroscience, empathy, and resilience. As the founder of Isaac Health, former Harvard Medical School faculty member, and co-author of CONFLICT RESILIENCE, Joel shares insights on navigating conflict and human connection.
The Department of Nuance | Episode 7: Conflict Resilience
Feb 26, 2025
In this episode, Bernardin Scholar Peter Denio is back to dialogue with longtime friend of the Bernardin Center, internationally recognized negotiation professional Bob Bordone. Bob provides real-life examples - at the personal, local, and global levels - of how we can be more resilient and courageous in the face of deeply-felt conflicts.
How to Create Stronger Connections by Disagreeing Better with Bob Bordone | Episode 1035
Feb 24, 2025
In this podcast, Bob Bordone discusses the importance of building conflict resilience and how it can help you navigate the tough conversations.
Former Harvard Professors’ Secrets to Conflict Resolution
Feb 3, 2025
On this episode of the Selling With Love Podcast, Harvard negotiation legend Robert Bordone and neurologist Joel Salinas drop science-backed strategies to transform conflict into your greatest superpower.
How To Navigate Tough Conversations With Bob Bordone
Jan 8, 2025
In this New Year’s episode, host Marina Franklin introduces new friend Bob Bordone and comedian Nonye Brown-West. The group dives deep into the complexities of having difficult political conversations, especially in the post-election and current societal climate.
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Negotiating Disagreement | Robert Bordone & Joel Salinas
Jan 6, 2025
In today's episode, we dive into the science of managing conflict and building resilience with Bob Bordone and Joel Salinas, two thought leaders in negotiation and emotional intelligence.
Pastors, Music Directors, and Conflict Resilience
Oct 1, 2024
In this episode, Bob Bordone shares how best practices in conflict resolution can benefit the working relationships between pastors, musicians, parish staff, and the diversity of gifts in the congregations they serve alongside.
On Conflict Resilience
Feb 28, 2023
On this episode of The Podcast on Negotiation, Bob and Remi Smolinski explore gaps in conflict education and how building conflict resilience can enhance problem-solving and even boost physical health.
Agility at Work: One Step Ahead
Oct 26, 2022
In this podcast, the heart of the conversation with Mike Wheeler and Kimberlyn Leary is on “conflict resilience.” It is the ability to sit with and be present around those with whom we have fundamentally different views.
National Institute for Civil Discourse Chat
Apr 16, 2021
In this podcast, I talk to Tim Shaffer from NICD about Conflict Resilience and Engaging Values, Not Positions.
The Extra Mile - The Official Charity Miles Podcast
Jul 10, 2020
In this conversation, I talk to Gene Gurkoff about why to have uncomfortable conversations and how to develop conflict resilience.